• velma@sh.itjust.works
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    3 days ago

    I think misandry is less bad than misogyny, as in it does less harm because of the way our systems are set up in a patriarchal society, but that doesn’t mean my belief is that misandry is good.

    I think you’d balk at someone saying that someone being racist was “understandable” because there was a black gang active where they grew up.

    Understandable is not the same as excusable.

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      3 days ago

      That makes sense, I think things like misandry are as harmful as things like misogyny on a case-by-case basis when removed from context, but of course misogyny is far more harmful overall, unless I’m stupid that seems to be what you’re also saying.

      For the understandable thing I was working with this definition:

      Expected or accepted under the circumstances.

      Which I would disagree with, but I think you were working off of this one:

      Capable of being understood; intelligible.

      Which, if you were, I agree with you.

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        3 days ago

        That makes sense, I think things like misandry are as harmful as things like misogyny on a case-by-case basis when removed from context, but of course misogyny is far more harmful overall, unless I’m stupid that seems to be what you’re also saying.

        That’s exactly what I’m saying.

        Capable of being understood; intelligible.

        Which, if you were, I agree with you.

        Yep we’re on the same page now.

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            3 days ago

            Thanks for taking the time to understand my comments and for being open to other points of view.

            We both dislike TERFs, we’re on the same side :)