Update: I contacted with current big owners, other older friends and lastly from some friends from here. Mostly all of them living in US so they don’t want/can’t host it. So I’ll keep hosting without being on moderation side. @gavi@lemmynsfw.com will post about details I guess. @gavi@lemmynsfw.com is the new top admin.

As you know, it has been 2 weeks since I opened the instance and it has grown quite a lot. Likewise, the time I have to devote to this work has increased a lot.

I’m dealing with lemmynsfw more than my IRL job right now :D This is bothering me. Also, having an NSFW instance instead of a normal instance makes things much more difficult. If you remember; I had my biggest scale fuck up with the post “we allow loli content” :) This situation wore me out. Also a lot of problems are bothering me, both as a software and as a community.

That’s why I’m thinking of transferring the instance and the domain to a person I trust. Who can maintain the deployments and also know this stuff. I will also roll over any donations made, excluding the current month’s expenses.

I’m sorry if I’ve upset anyone. That’s all from me.

  • ISeekGirls@lemmynsfw.comEnglish
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    1 year ago

    I am interested since I run servers and already have the infrastructure in place.

    I just have to get familiar with running a Lemmy instance on Docker. Also, I don’t see any documentation on how to transfer a Lemmy instance.

    • iorale@lemmy.fmhy.mlEnglish
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      1 year ago

      I think he means he already has someone to transfer to, he isn’t asking who wants to take over.
      Still, you could open your own instance if you have the infrastructure, it’s always good to have similar instances in case one of them goes down or something.

    • gavi@lemmynsfw.comMEnglish
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      1 year ago

      Where are your servers based if you don’t mind me asking? Feel free to DM if you don’t want that to be public info lol

      • ISeekGirls@lemmynsfw.comEnglish
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        1 year ago

        I have one dedicated server in the US and three VPS at Vultr. VPS at Vultr locations is nearest the client’s place of business since they only do a 100-mile radius of the business. My dedicated server uses CDNs from QUIC.cloud to Cloudflare. I can spin up VPS anywhere in the world.

        • gavi@lemmynsfw.comMEnglish
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          1 year ago

          Are you based in the US and familiar with dealing with the legal end of hosting this kinda stuff/would be comfortable doing so? For transparency I am not the person to talk about this with, @yay is, I am just curious.

          • ISeekGirls@lemmynsfw.comEnglish
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            1 year ago

            I have been running adult sites since the late 90s. The legal end is not hard if you have everything in order. I have it all under a media company with business insurance.

            It is easy.

            If I were to run a Lemmy NSFW instance I would have my lawyer write up the exact legal terms as PornHub, YouTube, and Reddit.

            My system admin would also REX any banned words, flag accounts, and flag IPs; anything uploaded would be the user’s responsibility. I would also create a moderation bot.